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Page last updated: October 24, 2026

October 22, 2026

My Spouse Shoved the Divorce Application Into My Hands — Does That Count as Legal Service? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in Scarborough

No. A divorce application must be served by special service by someone at least 18 who is not a party. Your spouse handing it to you does not comply. The papers are still in your hands, and the court can approve that service. Ignore them and you can be noted in default.

October 21, 2026

I Filed a Simple Divorce and Left It — Can the Court Cancel My Case? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in Markham

Yes. Filing is only the beginning. If the case is still unfinished 365 days after it was started, the court sends a Notice of Approaching Dismissal. Do nothing for 60 days after that, and the clerk dismisses the case. No certificate, and you are still married.

October 20, 2026

Can the Equalization Payment and Spousal Support Go to the Kids Instead of My Ex? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in Toronto

No. Equalization and spousal support belong to the spouse, not the children. You can't have the money paid into the children's names, you can't restrict how your ex spends it, and you can't force them to put it in a trust for the kids. Once it's paid, it's theirs.

October 19, 2026

I Earned the Money but the RRSP and TFSA Are in His Name — Can I Get It Back Based on What I Contributed? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in Richmond Hill

No. For married spouses, property isn't divided by who paid — it's equalized. An RRSP or TFSA in his name on separation day is his property, counted at market value. Even if you contributed 80%, equalization gives you half.

October 19, 2026

My Spouse and I Ran the Business Together — Can I Use the Bank Statements and Tax Records I Kept in Our Divorce? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in Mississauga

Yes. If you ran the business together and obtained them legally at the time, they can be used. Whether they count as private is a separate question — lawful sourcing is what matters. Your former lawyer was wrong. And act now: banks keep records only seven years — even a court order can't retrieve anything older.

October 17, 2026

I Bought Our Home Before Marriage — Can I Deduct Its Wedding-Day Value in the Divorce? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in Vaughan

It depends on whether it's still the family residence on separation day. If yes, the wedding-day value can't be deducted — the whole home counts as the matrimonial home. Only a pre-separation sale, move-out, or rental may bring the deduction back. A post-separation purchase isn't counted twice but must be disclosed; if the equalization can't otherwise be paid, the court can order it sold.

October 17, 2026

Everything Is in My Husband's Name — Can My Kids Get My Half Through My Will Without a Divorce? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in North York

No. Without a divorce, that half isn't legally yours yet — and no will can lock in what you don't own. Finish the divorce first, get your share transferred into your own name, and then make a will. Only then can your children actually receive your portion.

October 16, 2026

My RESP Is for My Child's University — Can the Bank Touch It? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in Scarborough

Yes. The money in the RESP is yours. Setting it aside for university does not put it beyond the bank's reach. If you don't pay, the bank can freeze your accounts, RESP included. Only money already paid out for education is out of reach.

October 15, 2026

My Separation Agreement Says We Waive Inheritance — Do I Still Need a Will? | Chinese-Speaking Divorce Lawyer in Markham

Yes. A separation agreement is not a will. A mutual waiver of spousal inheritance rights may not even stop your ex — let alone give a single dollar to your children. To leave everything to your kids, you need a separate will.

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Property Division & Net Family Property

The matrimonial home, pre-marriage deductions, why a pre-marriage home still occupied as the family residence on separation day gets no wedding-day deduction, why only a pre-separation sale, move-out or rental may bring that deduction back, why under five years almost never shocks the court into unequal division, parental gifts, why moving mom’s gift between accounts weakens the proof, why parents’ house money that goes through the child’s account with living expenses spent cannot be saved by amount or speed alone, why it is not too late after the wedding to contract the home and a parental down payment, why a company registered in your name is counted on your side first even if you never looked at the books, why bank statements and tax records a spouse kept while doing the books of a joint business can be used if lawfully obtained and why banks keep records only seven years, why an RRSP or TFSA in the other spouse’s name is not returned by contribution ratio, why equalization and spousal support cannot be paid to the children instead of the spouse, why company-held property still counts in a divorce, why an agreement signed under family pressure to give up property generally will not hold, forced sale, whether a post-separation increase is still shared, why an underwater house can be held after divorce but a court still uses the separation-date numbers, why a house bought after separation with money already on the books is not counted twice but must be disclosed and can be ordered sold if equalization cannot be paid, whether you can stay with the kids when title is in the other name, whether you can designate a house in his name as the matrimonial home so he cannot secretly mortgage it, whether a house titled in the in-laws’ names after a decade still yields a share, whether a wrong NFP can be recalculated, equalization limitation periods, an ex still occupying the house after divorce, why a family lawsuit will not stop a bank sale after mortgage default, why an RESP set aside for university is still reachable by the bank, why a pile of debts produced at divorce is not split down the middle automatically, why three years of common-law cohabitation in Ontario does not equalize property, why transferring a house share on a common-law split does not buy out child support, why a China divorce followed by remarriage is measured from the remarriage date, why assets in the husband’s name cannot be left to the children by will without a divorce, and why selling the house and splitting the money with an AI-written agreement is not closing the case.

37 articles

Cross-Border Assets & China–Canada Divorce

Property in China, cross-border disclosure, recognition of judgments, whether a China-only marriage needs two divorces if you live in Canada, answering a Chinese divorce claim while you live in Canada, equalization and support after a foreign divorce, whether university expenses can still be claimed after a China divorce agreement that only ran to 18, why a China divorce followed by remarriage is measured from the remarriage date, sponsorship after divorce, why wanting to immigrate with a toddler does not get you sole decision-making, and relocating or recovering a child from China.

18 articles

Child Custody & Support

Best-interests tests, whether wanting sole custody just means the kids live with you, why wanting to immigrate with a toddler does not get you sole decision-making, whether a child’s reluctance supports supervised parenting time, whether an adult child is still a custody case, relocation, whether support can be waived, why equalization and spousal support cannot be paid to the children instead of the spouse, whether university expenses can still be claimed after an agreement that only ran to 18, why transferring a house share on a common-law split does not buy out child support, retroactive support before anyone files, foreign divorce and spousal support, imputed income, why reporting $3,000 a month does not end the inquiry, SSAG, and China–Canada differences in support.

18 articles

Family Violence, Restraining Orders & Court Procedure

Emergency protection, default judgment, costs, regional court differences, stalled files, why a simple divorce filed and left is dismissed 60 days after the 365-day Notice of Approaching Dismissal, why a spouse shoving a divorce application into your hands is not valid service but ignoring the papers can still lead to default, why a family lawsuit will not stop a bank sale after mortgage default, whether files accidentally shared with you can be used in court, and why bank statements and tax records a spouse kept while doing the books of a joint business can be used if lawfully obtained — banks keep records only seven years.

15 articles

Separation, Contracts & Choosing a Lawyer

Separation date, same-roof separation, why eating together and attending weddings as a couple can undo a date you agreed, why a verbal split does not lock a later house purchase, why a pre-marriage home still occupied on separation day gets no wedding-day deduction and the date should be put in writing, agreements, why both sides cannot share one lawyer to draft, why an oral promise that the house and money are yours counts for nothing in court, why an oral extra 10% does not return an RRSP in his name by contribution ratio, why a verbal swap of property for sole decision-making does not count either, why a separation agreement that waives inheritance still is not a will, why a clause sending equalization or spousal support to the children is empty without the trust documents, why assets in the husband’s name cannot be left to the children by will without a divorce, why a separation agreement can still move your share into your name without a divorce, why writing that the RESP is yours in a separation agreement still does not bind the bank, why selling the house and splitting the money with an AI-written agreement is not closing the case, why an underwater house can be held after divorce only if the plan is written into the agreement, why transferring a house share on a common-law split does not buy out child support, why an agreement that only ran to 18 does not automatically extend to university, prenups that cannot lock parenting, why it is not too late after the wedding to contract the matrimonial home and a parental down payment, why an agreement signed under family pressure to give up property generally will not hold, why under five years almost never shocks the court into unequal division, why a simple divorce filed and left is dismissed 60 days after the 365-day Notice of Approaching Dismissal, common-law breakdown, why three years together still does not split property like a marriage, fees, and how to choose counsel.

36 articles

Estates & Same-Person Proof

After death a same-person declaration cannot be made. Only old documents and government records remain; if those are gone, you cannot prove it. An unsold house is still deemed sold at market value on the date of death. A separation agreement that waives inheritance still is not a will. Equalization and spousal support cannot be paid to the children; to leave money, use your own share — a trust, beneficiaries, a will. Assets in the husband’s name cannot be left to the children by will without a divorce. A will for assets in China is signed in China; parent-child and hukou notarizations should be done now.

6 articles

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